Thursday, June 25, 2015

Still fighting kind of

My ex and I finally reached a final agreement. I have my daughter from 8 a.m. on Monday until 8 p.m. on Wednesday, and we alternate holidays. Until school starts. Then I get her one night during the week and every other weekend. I am glad that I got it to where she is at her aunt's house one less day a week, but I am still not happy. Even though I will get her less when school starts, I can't wait for it to start, because that will keep her away from her aunt as a babysitter except for a couple of hours a day. I know that sounds petty, but her aunt is really a bad person for her to be with. She has been so damaged by her, that I don't know how long it will take to help her get over it, when I can finally get her away completely. I am not going to stop fighting to get her back. Her dad will give me what I need to take her back. I have no doubt of that. But for now, I had to agree to something to get out from under that judge for a while.

Cody and I are both seeing that same judge, and his ex and her family are going to extremes to try to keep us both away from our children. I will be glad when it is all over and we both have our children as much as we can. Surely the judge will see what bullshit this all is. Then Cody will have normal visitation with Kenny until we can prove that being with Brittony is not in his best interest. I hate that our two smallest children are in homes where they are being emotionally and psychologically damaged. We are helpless to protect them right now. But we will continue to fight to do our best, and one day we will win.