I talked to C last Friday. He told me that he is not coming home to us. He plans to move in with his girlfriend and her parents. I was so looking forward to being his "mommy" again. I know he isn't a baby and he has to make his own decisions in life, but that doesn't mean I have to be happy about it. :(
I am supposed to go see him again this Friday. I have been telling him that I will stand behind him no matter what he decides to do. I realized that I have not told him what I want, besides his happiness. I don't know if it is a good idea, or a bad idea, but this Friday I will be telling him that although I will stand beside him with any decision he makes, I WANT him to come home. Hopefully he just understands that I love him, and miss him. And hopefully he doesn't see it as a controlling thing, just a mom telling her child how much she loves him, and misses him. I will let you all know how that goes.
I am so sorry you are disappointed. I could see how exciting it would be to have a chance to "mother" him. I hope your conversation with him goes well and he feels your love.
ReplyDeleteI didn't get a chance to talk to him Monday. I am going to see him again Friday. Thank you for your comment. I am hoping he can tell how much I love him and am not trying to control him.
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